Guys....ya need to know.....

(this is a work in progress and will be updated as needed)

GUYS, YA NEED TO KNOW.....

-family comes first.....don't ask me to choose.....between YOU and my family.....MY FAMILY will always win....

-i will not tolerate you putting down anyone or any cause because you are ignorant....if you can give me a valid reason behind your reasoning.....i may support your opinions.....but not just because you "say so"......

-talk to me as if i'm a LADY....not one of your "homies"

-i will not send you naked pics of myself.....or expect any from you....that's just a cold reality you're going to have to live with.....

-i will not call you "big poppa" or "daddy"......ever

-don't assume you "know" me just cos you know my name.....or know my "type".....

-i will not "cam" with you.....or watch you play with yourself.....that's not attractive at all.....and i will most likely use that opportunity to block you.....

-respect me.....NEVER lie to me....NEVER hit me out of rage.....NEVER make me cry.....

-i am not really cute.....or a "cutie" if you're judging my pics....i'm just REALLY photogenic.....honestly

-wanna impress me???....read my blogger and then ask me about it....

-i'm really into chivalry.....flowers being sent to my work....doors being open for me.....poetry being written about me.......stuff like that....ya know.....stuff that make me FEEL IMPORTANT TO YOU (and handwritten letters/notes ALWAYS beat out e-mails/text messages *swoon*)

-i LOVE yellowcard.....get over it.....

-if i wanna go do something.....and you don't wanna go.....i'll leave your ass behind and go by myself or find someone else to go with....i'm not going to stop doing things that i like because you don't like them.....such as going to rock concerts or going to my cousins' gigs.....

-i will never grow up.....

-if i wanna do something crazy (but legal - like dye my hair pink) and you tell me NOT to....i'll do it just to spite you.....what can i say???.....i'm a spiteful person.....

-i'm a jealous girl.....yeah.....not the most flattering feature.....but i am.....*shrugs*

-i don't wear makeup.....

-i get depressed a lot.....

-i love to cuddle and be held.....

-i am pro-choice.....i prefer women to CHOOSE life....and want to give them the CHOICE and opportunity to make the right decision.....a decision that THEY will have to live with for the rest of their lives......

-i believe the wealth of knowledge is out there for the taking.....people just need to apply themselves.....

-i work....don't expect not to....even though i may not like to work.....i will.....

-it takes a village to raise a child.....

-i'm wild and unique.....and tend to do things "against the grain".....don't expect me to conform or "be like everyone else".....so don't try to compare me to anyone because with me....there is no comparison.....

-i will not call you.....i was raised that a guy should always call a girl...(hehe....yeah i know it's silly).....i mean i'll call to talk to you....but not "holla" at you.....and YES there is a difference....

-i have a lot of pet peeves and will be pointed out to you every time you do something that pisses me off.....such as using "street grammar"....."steet slang".....or lack of a more polite way of saying it....."bad grammar".....i will not respond.....mostly because i don't know what the hell you are saying.....speak....proper....english....trust me.....you'll appear more intelligent.....

-there are times when i say "i don't want to talk about it"....but it doesn't mean i won't talk about it LATER...this is my way of transitioning into my "cool down" period where my wrath is most lethal.....if you don't wanna feel my rage....give me some time to cool down (and this might also be a good time to remove any "throwable" objects away from my reach).....

-i squeeze the toothpaste from the middle of the tube....

-i have a habit of leaving the lid off the milk and kool-aid....

-i don't cook very often due to time constraints

-i tolerate gay marriages.....don't necessarily "believe" in them.....but don't think gay couples should be denied marriage privileges.....or rights.....

-i dont like rap.....i'm a rocker!!!

-i eat the whole apple.....seeds and all....yeah i know its gross.....but i do.....

-i have a goofy sense of humor with a little bit of dark tendencies and sarcasm.....

-dude this is the internet.....my online personality and my real-life personality are two different things.....similar in most cases.....but there are some differences.....

-and shit.....if you're a guy and you're still reading this.....and STILL wanna get to know me more......send me an e-mail or a message.....i'm really not a bitch....i'm just "particular".....lol

just recently added.....

-i go by "island time" most of the time

-never call me "babe" or "baby" or the "c" word.....rhymes with "runt"