Ro's Rantings Archive....Feb 21 2005

my rant 02/21/05 11:32 PM
i just got done reading posts in other groups i belong (i'm a member of over 30 groups)......and i just got to say there's a lot of drama out there.......over stupid shit......

i know we've had our small little drama in here and it's dead (i've tried to make amends)......but i just can't believe all the other shit that's going on.......what da hell for??????.......over some "he said she said" shit??????......it's just something i'm never going to understand......and the GROUP LEADERS let this shit simmer for days sometimes even weeks or months.......i've deleted the threads that caused damage, i don't let that shit come back in here.......but still, i don't understand it.......there's so much drama in the world.......why do people insist on bringing it here????......who's with who, who slept with who, who cammed with who.......WHO FUCKIN CARES?!?!?!?!?

so you slept with someone on tickle and they end up dumping you......don't go following them in E-V-E-R-Y single group they're in and TELL everyone......not only do YOU sound like a dumbass, but you look like a crazed stalker......

so what if you fucked someone from tickle thinking it was "something special" and to the other person it was just fucking......you really gotta post that shit??????......you really have to CONFIRM you're a hoe??????

that's some PERSONAL shit.......don't fuckin post it all on a PUBLIC website.......don't become online stalkers.......don't create multiple profiles for all your multiple personalities so you can run a muck all over tickle talking shit about someone......don't lower youself to these stupid high school games to condone a person for being human.......people fuck up all the time......get over it......ya cry for a couple of days, weeks even and then ya get over it......ya move on......

your heart might be broken, but it's still beating......

and stop bringing up old shit.......like drama that has been dead for months and then some dumbass has to post and bring that shit up again......stop resurrecting drama......if it's dead......let it rest!!!!!!

i had an experience in another group, where i had some problems back in the day with these two people.......IT'S BEEN OVER A FREEEEEAKIN YEAR SINCE THE DRAMA and you know what i did??????.......I LET THE SHIT DIE.......let by gones be by gones.......and guess what?????.......it stayed dead.......and i'm alright with these people now.......they might still hate what i DID but now i know they don't hate ME, and i can't take back shit i said but at least NOW i know we have an understanding, that IF they needed help or anything, i wouldn't turn my back on them......true we're not the bestest of friends like we were before, but we're okay with each other now.......we're cool with each other......

and don't hold grudges.......it's hard i know.......but you never know if you need help and they're the only ones there to help......ask for forgiveness.......get off your high and mighty horse and say you're sorry.......and if you're too prideful to say you're sorry, then at least let people know you don't hate them and try to make amends.......

you never know what's going to happen tomorrow, or the next week, or next month or what not......do you really wanna have shit like that hang over ya?????.......do you wanna be remembered as a cyber stalker or a drama queen or the tickle hoe or man whore?????......if you're over 21, act like it......

so in closing, don't become cyber stalkers, don't go airing your dirty laundry, don't sleep around with EVERYONE you meet online and try and keep the peace.......

thank you

end rant